Did you not see~

I will love you for you
Not for what you have done or what you will become
I will love you for you
I will give you the love 
The love that you never knew~
JJ Heller, Love Me.

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The Black & The White.~

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These streets are dead just waiting to come alive.~

I find it so sad that our society nowadays can’t handle the fact that sex is a post-marital thing, meaning after marriage. The fact that you can’t have enough dignity to stay pure & keep your body and soul to your self, that you just give it all away the moment there is an opportunity is trashy and makes you look “easy”. The girls who do this think that guys respect them for it, well newsflash it will only make them see you as a piece of “meat”. I know for a fact that it is not hard to wait & save you’re self. With that said I also know there is pressure, but the word “no” feels good coming out of your mouth rather that saying yes and regretting it later, because frankly you don’t have sex physically and I don’t care how many people think they can, it is impossible. It’s emotional more than anything, because it is a passionate thing. Which is why it shouldn’t be something taken so lightly.

People throw the words love and hate around like they’re nothing. People in general say I hate you all the time, in Deuteronomy 22:13-18 it says;

• 13 If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,
•  ¹⁴ And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:
•  ¹⁵ Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel’s virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate:
•  ¹⁶ And the damsel’s father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;
•  ¹⁷ And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter’s virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city.
•  ¹⁸ And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him;

-King James Version.

So when did that stop? Why is it so okay to have sex before marriage and for us to hate? It’s not, sadly enough we are a very irresponsible society.

On the other hand, why do we throw love around like it’s nothing. I don’t know if you’ve noticed but when someone says ily it is different that I Love you. When you spell it out it is symbolizing you care more that you do with ily. So why are we always telling someone I love you, when love is not a simple thing. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 says;

• ⁴ Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud ⁵ or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. ⁶ It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. ⁷ Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
•  ⁸ Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever!

-New Living Translation

People say you can fall in and out of love, well sorry to tell you it never was love if it is past tense. Even in the circumstance of death you can still love someone.  Love never ends so next time you go and tell someone you love them think about what you are saying, that you will be patient and kind, not jealous or boastful, proud or rude, not demanding, irritable, and you don’t hold a grudge against another person. That you don’t say I told you so, that you will never give up or lose faith in this person, that you will always hope and in the worst of worsts you stay.
I myself have a lot to work on in the language of love but it is worth it, because if you truly “love someone” you won’t have issues with working on your problems in order to love them more.

~When you’re honest with yourself that is when you can start expecting to be that better person because no one is perfect, and accepting struggles within is one of the hardest things to do.~ 

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& the water is rising quick

We can’t be sure when it will subside~

There’s all this unsaid stuff, it clogs up the pores of life.  It makes situations awkward and unbearable sometimes. I hate not talking but evermore sometimes talking is to much to handle. So what do we do then, at that moment when you’re stuck in the awkward spot but not willing or ready to talk about the problem? We breathe, take a step back and think about the actions we are about to take, ask our selves if walking away is better than sticking through the awkard moment and just letting that person know that you are there and that is all you can do right now. It’s a very hard thing to do but when you do it eventually there will become results.
The thing is everyone has all these emotions, love, hate, anger, happiness, joy,disbelief..etc. But noone knows what to do with them or where to put them. Do we express our ever most feelings even if it means hurting one person but also it could mean helping another? What is a person to do. Well in reality anyone can tell you that expressing an emotion will open someone or something up, maybe it will upset someone, or maybe because you told someone you could end up in a relationship which could end up in marriage. All these emotions can affect our world so much I think that is why nobody knows how, when, or where to express them. The truth to that is, ultimately there is not “right” time for anything. So the best way to deal with these crazy emotions is to let them out and tell someone, whether that be person to person, blogging, singing, or what ever you find that works when it comes to expressing yourself. My point in all this, is our society is shy and lazy. We hide behind excuses and reasons why to not do something, it’s time to step up and let our emotions be heard.
Over all love is louder than the pressure to be perfect, so stop trying to act like everyone else. Be you.
Have a lovely evening.~

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I found a real love and he is my ransom~

I finally know that I’m where I’m suppose to be
so I raise my hands I get on my knees
because there is nothing like the day the Spirit captured me
and there is no one greater I surrender I don’t need another Savior
I’m never going to run~

 

All the times we had, all the memories made. I want to thank you, no matter how badly I’m hurt thank you for those good times. You truly cared at one point and time, as of now I’m not so sure. I realize you were a great person but you scared me with weapons sharper than knives or blades. It’s time for me to move on and I realize that now. So I’m sorry for any pain this may cause you but I am done. I love you, goodbye.

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Our mouths are like bombs~

They’re always going off at the wrong times.

So many people love to sit around and talk, the older ones tend to talk about the weather or the natural disasters happening. The younger ones tend to gossip more, adults do it as well but teenagers are usually worse about it. It’s nothing anyone should honestly be proud of because gossip isn’t normally when you’re talking nicely about someone. It consists of rumors, lies, rude opinions, and many other things. Sometimes it doesn’t consist of all these things but at least a few. I for one hate it, it causes drama and hatred. We all do it, but I have decided on keeping my mouth shut if I have thoughts about anyone that may be in the least bit hurtful, I will keep them to myself. This will not be an easy thing for me to do. Fact one I live in a town the size of pluto and that is what keeps it going. Fact two, I am a teenage girl and it tends to be a habit. Non the less I have made a promise to myself (something I tend to do often) that I will not gossip and that when I hear someone gossiping or talking disrespectfully about someone else I will not pay any attention or if possible walk out of the room. So if I happen to walk out of the room around you, and you happened to be gossiping don’t be shocked. I keep my promises. This is just another way to truly love. When you have nothing bad to say about someone else it will help them not have anything bad to say about you.

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Un-ending Love~

Throughout these past few weeks I’ve realized that people can be very disrespectful towards others even though those certain people may have done nothing to them. I see this happen all day almost everyday, it’s not something I enjoy watching or even hearing. It made me reflect on how I act and when I have those “terrible, horrible, no good, very bad days” I realized that most people who act disrespectful are usually having a bad day. So then I ask myself when I have those days does that give me the right to act that way toward those innocent people who have done nothing? My answer is no, it does not. I don’t think it gives anyone the right to do that, but we all do. I keep having these thoughts of kindness and how to be nicer.
In conclusion I realized that when we have those bad days we need to realize that there is other ways to express your feelings rather than being disrespectful and using unkind words. Also that when we notice someone else is doing that, instead of saying “Oh she is in a bad mood, stay away from her” we should go up to that person and ask if they want to talk about it or even just give some encouraging words. If they say that they would rather not talk about it just make sure they know you are willing to listen if they need to blow some steam. We all have our best friends we do that with but how many times do we ask someone we rarely talk to if they want to talk about their problems? I don’t honestly know that we do. If you do well kudos to you, I need to work on it. It is an act of caring and it shows that you are not just all about you and your friends but that you also care about everyone else as well.
~Love never ends and this is a way to show the love.

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